Monday, July 12, 2010

We meet our sweet Sarah....

Yesterday after traveling for 26 hours when we arrived in Nanchang around 10:00am, we were told that we would meet Sarah that afternoon around 4:00. We were not expecting to meet her until Monday! So, we showered and attempted to get ourselves together for the meeting of a lifetime. I can't even being to explain the emotions we felt waiting for her to get to the Civil Affairs office. We were scared...excited...and it almost felt surreal. I can't explain the emotions I felt when I first saw her. She was so sad and cried for about two hours after meeting her. She was inconsolable. We found out the Sarah actually didn't live in an orphanage, but was in foster care with a retired couple. She eventually warmed up to us and we were able to see some of her personality. Amazingly, we ate dinner together and she slept all night. This morning was a little challenging, we had to wake her up to make it to an appointment and I think that she was scared because she didn't recognize her surroundings. We got through that and the rest of the morning went well. We are now legally Sarah's parents now which feels wonderful. She discovered at the adoption appointment that she can walk. She may walk unsteadily, but she is walking without holding on to anything. Our hotel room is not baby proof so it is a little scary at times. If I had to describe Sarah to you, I would say that she is sweet, tough, sassy, smart and very stubborn. Last night when Todd was holding her, she rubbed his back. She loves to feed us her food. She waves at people when the walk by. When she doesn't get what she wants, she cries or screams (she also does this funny cute little thing with her mouth when she cries). She loves to throw things. She is curious about everything. If we show her to do something once, she can do it almost immediately. She has fallen more than a few times when she has been walking and she just doesn't cry, she says "ohhh..." and gets back up. She wants what she wants when she wants it. All of that sounds like a two year old, doesn't it? We are so happy to finally be with her, but it has been difficult at times. We don't understand much about her and that is hard for both of us. It has taken us yesterday and today to get her to drink because we weren't using the right cup. We don't know when she is tired or hungry, but we are learning each other. Todd and I still so exhausted, but we are loving being with Sarah. The other couples in our travel group are wonderful. We feel so supported.  This would be so hard to do by yourself. We miss home and can't wait to see everyone!!
Here are some pictures from yesterday and today. 

11 comments:

SarahinSC said...

Wow! Amazing! It finally happened! I am so happy for ya'll!

Angie-n-Rick said...

Awsomeness!!! Can't begin to tell you what I felt this morning when I checked the blog - I'm so excited for you guys!!! From your description, Sarah sounds just perfect!!! And foster care?! Amazing - what an extra blessing!! Very cool my friends - enjoy every minute with your sweet baby girl!! Thank you God that nothing is impossible!!

Love u guys - Angie-n-Rick

Anonymous said...

Great pics! Thanks for sharing the details. It sounds amazing, surreal (and totally like first time parents - woo hoo!!)

Love,
Jen

Anonymous said...

Great pics!! Thanks for sharing the details, it's great to hear about your first moments with Sarah. She's a cutie, and you all sound like average first time parents in a very extraordinary journey.

Love, Jen

Lori Lee said...

Congratulations! I am so excited for your family! Enjoy these moments! They may be difficult, but it is the foundation of a wonderful future together!

Nita said...

I was shocked when I saw on your facebook that Jeannies said you had met her already! Made me cry to finally see you all together. She is so cute and you all are a beautiful family. Sounds like you are all adjusting well. I knew you would there is noone on this earth who was born to be a mom more than you! Hmmm...sweet, sassy, stubborn...just like her momma already! =) Enjoy your time with her and keep us posted.

Love you!

Juanita and Kris

Nancy Bozard said...

Todd and Maria,
I can not describe how excited I am to see you with Sarah Grace in your arms! It is a dream realized! It is a wish come true! How incredible your journey! Thank you God for this most precious gift. I know you can't wait to bring your beautiful, adorable daughter home. Thank you for sharing your baby girl with us! Can't wait to see and hear more about her.

Anonymous said...

Hello from Cincinnati! This is Addriannes friend Koko. I am sooooo happy for you and your family. Having been throught the adoption process myself, I understand the joy you must be feeling. She is a very lucky little girl and I am sure that you will be the best parents ever. Hang in there, because when you finnaly get her into her new home, there will be no feeling to compare. I am getting chills just thinking of it. Good luck and be safe! Sincerely, Tom, Koko and Carson Bellamy aka "Team Bellamy"

Anonymous said...

She is adorable Maria and Todd. I am so happy for you. I'm sure you are exhausted, and this first couple of weeks is always a hard time, but you'll feel like you all fit together soon. God's blessings on your journey.

dakdeb said...

You all look so happy! Sarah's personality sounds like it matches her pictures. She could not be any cuter. What a wonderful blessing that things are going well. It is also great that you are getting a taste of the culture there and have good companions. I can't wait to hear more. Todd, have you tried chocolate chip cookies yet?! Love you all, Deb

aunt jen :) said...

i kept looking here on the blog for an update and there was one finally! u guys looked the happiest i ever have seen u in the picture of the three of u. she is just beautiful! and everything u posted sounds like your normal everyday toddler.seems like u three r adjusting well.it will get easier and better as days go by and especially when u take her to her new home. i'm so excitied for u guys and i can't wait to finally meet her. u guys r going to be great parents. sarah just doesn't know what she has gotten herself in by being apart of this family. lol! we love miss u guys! please call soon and be safe!